Not even a single relation is always easy and smooth. We had to go through a lot of pain, miscommunication, and arguments. We always expect our partner to be the one to make us happy. People always believe this because they don’t know it better. There is a lot of work that needs to be done on your side too. You need to accept your partner with every flaw. And make your relationship a priority.
After you will start diverting your mind towards solving these problems, your relationship will start booming and crazy things will happen. You need to first start setting up the boundaries and start communicating to make your relationship work. In the end, both of you will be together. And both of you will feel so connected like never before. There is magic in healing your relationship.
No Passion in a Relationship
There can be a lot of reasons, why there is no passion in your relationship. This can happen in any couple. As this is a very common problem couples are facing. Their reasons for no passion can be Lack of communication, Insecurity, Lack of trust, Misunderstanding, No interest in each other Etc.
But the good news is you can regain passion in your relationship. But it needs work from both sides, efforts from only one partner cannot bring back the passion. It is a dual-sided cure.
Bring Passion Back in Your Relationship
1. Be spontaneous
Just because a spark has lost from your relationship or passion has gone. It doesn’t mean both of you should stop spending time together. Even after losing the passion, make sure to spend more and more quality time together to maintain spontaneity.
2. Kiss like you mean it
Do you realize that both of you are not kissing each for a while? That’s the reason of lost passion. Now start kissing each other more often and more passionately. This will ignite the passion in your relationship once again. Sometimes kissing your partner at the time when your partner is least expecting it from you, will surprise him/her and make them happy.
3. Try new things together
Make sure both of you are sharing some common habits or you are trying some new things together. The things should be of fun like painting, swimming, Etc. And make sure while trying these things both of you should come closer to each other.
4. Touch each other
Start touching each other more often, whether its holding hands or hugging each other. The touch creates more intimacy between the partners. So, don’t let any situation go waste where you can touch each other.
5. Enjoy each other’s company
Enjoy being together, spend some valuable time together and do something which your partner likes about you. This can be dancing, singing, Etc. This will make your partner fall for you on a deeper level. You need to make yourself more interesting so that your partner wants to stick to you and enjoy your company.
6. Sense of humor
While spending time together make sure both of you maintain a sense of humor while talking. And share some funny incidents. The incidents can be of yourself too as it will make your partner believe that you trust him. This will make your partner fall for you on a deeper level.
7. Share what you are feeling
Share your feelings with your partner. Whenever you are feeling something it may be some tension, stress or feeling something about your partner, just share it with him/her. This will increase understanding between both of you.
8. Go on dates more often
Have you stopped going on dates? Then this is the biggest mistake you have made. As in dates both of you can share your feelings, spend some quality time without being stressed about anything. This is the best time where both of you can increase love and understanding between each other.
9. Talk about memorable moments
Talk and remember about the memorable moments of your life, and how both of you used to be with each other at the beginning of the relationship. You can share how both of you were feeling at your first date or every first of yours. Memorable moments can reignite those feelings which have existed at that time. You will feel those feelings once again.
10. The 24hour rule
Whenever you feel that there is something bad happening within your relationship, in that case, give yourself at least 24 hours before reacting towards it. As in 24 hours, you can understand the whole situation with a cool mind. Otherwise, you may react unnecessarily.
Make sure you are not spending the whole time just to nurture your relationship. Give some time to yourself too, and make an identity of yourself. This is important too for a relationship as when you have a value of yourself then your partner will also value you. Your partner will be proud of you.
12. Work for passion
You need to work for creating passion, and all these points will help you only when you will work on them. Without working on them, this is not going to happen.
Many things can make the passion fade away from a relationship, but by following these steps you can surely enjoy your healthy and long-lasting relationship. These things are common in every relationship but there are situations also which are different in every relationship, you need to understand them too and work on them.