Lovemaking Tips For Married Couples

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Just because you are now married does not mean that sex has to go out the window. Marriage is not the libidos death sentence. What changed that now because we are married I no longer desire you or want to pleasure you… That is complete nonsense Sex in marriage should be even more intense and unbridled as now you have each other 24/7 and can explore and go crazy. Sex is supposed to be messy loud and fun if you not laughing you doing it wrong!

Rise And Shine Sex

Wake an hour earlier than you are scheduled too lean over to your partner and lightly brush kisses over their body, to get them going roll them on their back and initiate traveling down whilst kissing them have your hand firmly cupping their chest lightly flicking their nipple while you go down on them and when they are fully aroused initiate full penetration. This is a sure-fire way to get the day started right.

Quickies?

Sex does not have to belong and drawn out if you feel aroused to find your partner and have a quickie. Take your partner and bend her over the sofa or pick her up and put her on the kitchen counter and quickly make love to her let her pull hair or bite your neck press her up against a wall just have fun with her body that oozes sexuality.

Tie Me Up

For older couples that may not be aware it is so hot to be tied up! If you adventurous use a blindfold too. Get a pair of handcuffs or if you still warming to the idea shoelaces work and get tied to the bedpost 🙂 there is nothing that beats this for bringing that all-important spark back. The best way to do this is to face down! As penetration from behind goes deeper and easily brings out those multiple Ohs.

Pucker Up

Kissing is a lost art form. But it is so important in keeping a marriage alive and thriving. It’s also a great way to tease and turn your spouse on! Kissing keeps you guys close and is just such a beautiful way of expressing your love together. This is your person remember that taste them tease them grab them and throw them down on the sofa get on top of them and make a point to turn them on for one hour through touch play, tickles, light nibbling, and grinding your erect penis up against their vagina (lightly of course).

Something New

There are fantastic apps that you can install that give you daily positions to try. Who wants to do missionary all the time like yawn! Sex is supposed to be about the discovery of yourself and your spouse so go ham on each other. You can then compare notes of what you liked and the stuff you didn’t Remember again, this is your person nothing is taboo and if it is then using a safe word. Also, don’t schedule it like we are going to try so and so on Tuesday that approach is just as boring as missionary Mondays!

Talk Dirty To Me

This one can take place during the day while you away from each other send some raunchy texts! Nothing beats that beep and you look and there’s a list of things your spouse wants to do to you and how they want to do it now. Send a few pics to some suggestive text and watch how the magic unfolds! All your spouse wants to know is do I do it for you and this way you can let your imagination run wild and when you guys get home play out your fantasies make sure the build-up is followed through!

Kink It Up

We all have our fantasies and what we would like. Having kinky sex is not as demonized as it was so taking advantage of it. Watch some porn with your spouse to see what you would like to try, there are so many options available for you to look at. It doesn’t just have to be handcuffed. Try to play or choke play full-on cosplay. Whatever you want to make a list and then along with your new positions list. Most importantly have fun with it.

New Locals

This one is fun as it can be inside the home or outside! Having sex in the bedroom constantly can get tedious! It also kills the mood if you know where and how you will make love. So switch it up to become like teenagers! Go into the garage and have sex in the parked car! Shower sex is always a winner! But if that’s a bit to out there move from the bed to the floor of your bedroom! Do it wherever as it is your home after all and if you have kids do it after hours 🙂 There is no need for boring or no sex after marriage this is where you supposed to get a constant supply.

Final Thoughts

Bringing back passion to the marriage should be a fun exercise that you both enjoy! This will increase the level of intimacy in the marriage. We hope these tips have sparked that intimacy in your marriage.

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