Polyamory issues: Straight men need to stop using polyamory as an excuse to manipulate women into casual dating
Many guys, who are looking for dating ladies with zero commitment, often tell that they are looking for polyamorous relationship. However, the fact is that the true polyamory requires even more commitment than classical monogamy dating. Therefore, straight men need to stop using polyamory as an excuse to manipulate women into casual dating.
There are thousands of men, who are not ready for serious relationship, explaining their choice by inclination towards polyamory. However, dishonesty, ghosting and a common desire to have sex with plenty of ladies is surely not a polyamory itself. There is a huge difference between a polyamorous person and a man, who is not ready to settle down.
What is polyamory?
Some people identify polyamory as a new sexual orientation, while the others believe it is just a kind of lifestyle. However, in both cases polyamory includes a strong sense of commitment to the primary partner and all the additional relationships. Moreover, it has many similarities with classical monogamy, but in this case you feel trust, respect and love to more than one person. Polyamory is not an “open relationship”, where one person is having sex with multiple partners. It is about having deep feelings to more than one person at the same time.
Currently, polyamory becomes more and more popular. Approximately one third of men and women believe that a perfect relationship is not monogamous. One of the main issues many ladies are now facing, when it comes to classical dating, is that they are often blamed for being old-fashioned and narrow-minded. Therefore, they are just forced to stay in mock relationship, where a man is feeling free to date several women. It is obvious that such relationship has nothing common with a true polyamory.
If you are not ready to share your partner with someone else, do not let someone play games or trick on you. Just stand for your values and avoid letting manipulate you.