How to get him back? 5 Steps to fix your relationship
Breaking up is often incredibly painful. It really sucks and you might feel like turned inside out. What can you do to fix your relationship? How can you get him back? No tears. No despair. Find out five easy steps to resume your relations.
- Suppress your negative emotions. First of all, do not blame yourself in destroying your love. Second, stop crying. If you want to get him back, you should not have red eyes and swollen face. Third, try to change your emotional energy (although it might seem extremely difficult). Fourth, avoid eating junk food and trying to shut down your depression with chocolate donuts. Healthy food is a natural way to elevate your mood. Moreover, you will need to raise your self-esteem. Start doing what you are good at, use art therapy and reveal your negative emotions.
- Never beg or debase. Remember that eating a humble pie will not bring him back. Moreover, it is likely to push him away. Do not call him back. Do not give him any promises. Do not send him gifts or letters. All your attempts to contact your ex will just irritate him. But we still want to get him back, right?
- Avoid talking with your boyfriend unless you have completely calmed down. Thus, you will need to wait from a couple of days to a couple of weeks before making a first call. Not to mention, your ex might also cooled down and start thinking of you again. Give him some time to think and realize that he has made a mistake. If you call your boyfriend constantly, he will not feel he misses you!
- Make your best self. Put yourself in order. Stop looking like a shadow. Make a new stylish haircut; put some makeup and go shopping (either you want it or not!); buy new clothes and accessories to start loving yourself again. Try to go out with friends, spend more time on your hobbies and avoid thinking of your ex. People around you always feel your positive attitude to life and your boyfriend will feel it too. It is just a secret magnetism.
- Find out the real reasons of your break up and design a new kind of relationship with your boyfriend. You have both made mistakes. And now you can fix them. Contact your ex only after you have felt renovated and calmed down. Do not push. Just send him a message or make a short phone call. Make him interested in you.
Note: these tips might still not get him back. If they fail, try to move on and respect his decision. True love is always mutual. If your feelings are not mutual, the real love is still waiting for you with another guy!