It looked like the whole world had turned against you and you hated people with passion, you probably thought you will never love again. Well, that was one time, now that you have gone through a series of breakups, your heart might have been left into small pieces and you might think it is difficult to assemble them together and love again. Well, it is not an easy thing, but it is absolutely manageable, you can do it again.
Tips on How to Open Your Heart to Love
1. Forgive and forget
Sounds like that famous quote right? Well, I can proudly tell you that it works miracles. This can be the hardest thing to do in life, especially of you trusted somebody and they broke your heart, a feeling might come which will keep telling you that you were being used, to be able to do this you should first make peace with yourself, think over it for a long time and try to eliminate the bitterness in your heart and change your perspective about all these. The craziest thing is that those who hurt you might not even be remorseful or ask for forgiveness but you should never rely on that. One thing you should remind your self is that you will never land on a better deal just on the very first day and so it is just a way of life and move over it.
2. Trust in the universe
Well, this might sound crazy especially if you are in pain but it is the plain truth, how well do you know what will happen to you in the future? Am sure you know nothing about that, this is the reason why you should just trust in the universe, just know that tomorrow a better thing might come your way, so why not love again? You just never know what is going to come tomorrow. If your heart was broken, truth is that you have nothing to do about the situation all you can do is to forget the past and focus on how you can make your future better.
3. Pick a lesson from it
Sometimes heartbreaks are not really meant to break our hearts, if you look at it from a different perspective, you will realize that it is all about getting our lessons on how to live more responsibly. Have you ever realized that maybe you just loved too much then you should until it looked stupid? Well, this might just be the lesson that you picked from your break up, it is really meant to help you as you get to your next relationship to be more careful and sensitive, this is the reason you don’t need to stay there thinking about what happened, appreciate that you picked up something and move on, love again but this time with a lot more of your head into it.
4. Don’t let someone else determine your happiness
So you are not happy just because somebody decided to walk away? No get out and shine again, you are the author of your own life. Maybe you are just a bit more valuable than that, there might just be some good things waiting for you out there but you keep shutting the door for such opportunities. Sometimes you will get someone who understands your value a lot more than if you decide to love once more, the best thing is that this time you are walking into a relationship with a lot of experience than before you will now understand when to try harder and when to walk away. One thing you should keep in mind is that those who get the best kept trying until their lucky day comes; trying one more time opens up more chances for your success.
5. Get your attention to something else
Sometimes we find it hard to move over our heartbreaks just because we focus on them too much, it is time you focus on something else. Do you have a hobby or talent, or maybe something you just like? Well, go for it, it might be music, drawing, adventure, and many other things, just as long as you are having something else to occupy your mind apart from the relationship stuff. While you take time to change your focus, you will learn more things about life and how you can handle everything; it is that time you are alone doing something you like when you find a lot of meaning in life more than a toxic relationship.
6. Talk to people you trust
Sometimes you might just think that you are alone in the world going through such difficult times, when you talk you, other people, you will realize that people out there have even gone through worse than you are and they have managed to pick up themselves and started again until their success, this will encourage you a lot and you will start a new life and love again.